Girl Self-Esteem & Image Issues & Parents
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Almost across the nation 50% of young girls are engaged in negative activities such as injuring and cutting themselves or engaging in unhealthy eating habits and disorders due to self-esteem and self-image issues.
Girl Self-Esteem & Image Issues
Dove’s Campaign on True Beauty came with a bang last year with their poignant videos that went viral all over the web:
Have you visited their site? It has quite a good number of statistical data in regards to Girls and Self-Image. They have information as well as workshops in helping a girl with their self-esteem. They also have a map with top cities and the individual studies they did in each area. I’ve summarized their statistics and findings below.
Here is the executive summary:
Self-esteem has become a crisis in this country. The majority of girls feel they do not measure up in some way including their looks, performance in school and relationships. Most disturbing is that girls with low self-esteem are three times more likely than girls with high self-esteem to engage in harmful and destructive behavior that can leave a lasting imprint on their lives.
Highlights: Real Girls, Real Pressure National Study
Girls and Insecurities
- 7 in 10 Girls believe they are not good enough or do not measure up in some way including their looks, performance i school and relationship with friends and family members.
- 62% Girls are insecure about themselves
Low Self Esteem and Bad Behavior
- 75% of girls with low self-esteem report engaging in negative activities such as eating disorders, cutting, smoking, drinking when feeling bad about themselves.
- 25% of teen girls with low self-esteem purposefully injure or cut themselves
- 25% of teen girls with low self-esteem have eating disorders (starving, refusing to eat, overeating, throwing up, bulimia)
Parental Influence Good and Bad
- Girls with low self-esteem less likely to receive praise from parents but more criticism
- 34% of girls with low-self esteem feel they are not good enough of a daughter.
- 57% of girls have mothers who criticizes her looks
- 57% of girls don’t tell mothers things about them because of they don’t want them to think bad of them
One of their primary focuses is the fact that parents have great influence in the way their daughters view beauty, their body, and their self-esteem. There is a push to make parents aware that their comments about eating habits, about clothes and looks, about body images all molds a child’s thinking. Moms are role models, and when moms are constantly talking about how some dress makes them look (“This dress makes me look so pretty” “this dress makes me look fat”) or how they feel about their body (“I am getting fat!”) or how their daughter needs to eat a certain way not to get fat (“Don’t eat that or you’ll get fat”), these off hand comments that most people make molds the way the child views themselves, the way they view what is beauty and their own self-esteem.
Below I’ve noted some high level information from some of the bigger cities in the US. Statistics always hit closer to home when you know it’s your local area. You can find the rest of the cities on their map page. Highest among the list is bolded.
Believe they are not good enough daughters
Austin – 19%
Chicago – 18%
Los Angeles – 23% (top 10)
New York – 19%
San Francisco – 25% (top 5)
Believe they do not measure up in some way (looks, performance, relationships)
Austin – 71%
Chicago – 70%
Los Angeles – 70%
New York – 59%
San Francisco – 71%
Seattle – 67%
Washington D.C – 66%
Engaged in Negative Activities due to Self-Esteem Issues
Austin – 43% (9% injure or cut themselves, 24% eating disorders)
Chicago – 49% (5% injure or cut themselves, 15% eating disorders)
Los Angeles – 50% (7% injure or cut themselves, 22% eating disorders)
New York – 46% (7% injure or cut themselves, 17% eating disorder)
San Francisco – 51% (7% injure or cut themselves, 8% eating disorders)
Seattle – 62% (13% injure or cut themselves, 19% eating disorders)
Washington D.C – 53% (15% injure or cut themselves, 24% eating disorders)
Top wish of Girls in regards to their parents
Parents to Communicate Better – more open conversations about their lives
50% of Young Girls are Engaging in Harmful Activities
The statistics are alarming. Almost across the nation 50% of young girls are engaged in negative activities such as injuring and cutting themselves or engaging in unhealthy eating habits and disorders due to self-esteem and self-image issues. Since childhood they are influenced by media, the beautiful celebrities, the models, the magazines that tells them the best ways to look prettier, lose more weight, while displaying skinny perfect skinned women. As adults alike are engaged in this culture, when they look at parents or older models they see the same type of image focused values. It is no wonder girls in our modern culture have self-image issues.
There are a lot of good articles out there discussing how parents can positively influence and affect their child’s view of themselves and properly anchor their self-image and self-esteem on the right things. A child’s dependence on how they look stems often from the language and life of their own parents and so with a little more awareness and effort parents can together have a positive influence on their children.
- What is your reaction to these statistics?
- Do any of the self esteem statistics surprise you?
- What great ideas have you tried with your children to help their self-esteem?
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I agree
It’s actually pretty sad to see this happening to girls. I’ve seen little girls change SO much and so prematurely because they want to fit in to this ‘beauty’ image. What’s most disturbing is that they see this as a natural progression, as though it was something they need to do as part of growing up.
Where did you get the stats for this article? I would like to use them in a report for school but I need the resource. It would be really appreciated if I could get the sources as soon as possible. Thanks!
Hey Jenny,
it notes in the article that the stats are from the dove site. I would poke around on their site to find some of the statistics noted here.
You can also utilize this link to help you get started: self esteem statistics
Also have you seen this article about children and the concept of beauty? Very fascinating. I think it will be helpful in your studies.
Where you can, please source this website as well to help spread the word
Hope this helps.
Hi, I’m doing my Eng 111 research paper on The media and how it affects young people’s self esteem and body image. I just read your article and would like to use your statistics on my paper but I need the author’s full name for my works cited. I don’t mind if it’s just the last name etc as long as my source is legit to my teacher. So, if its ok can you please respond to my comment with the author’s full name of last name? thank you!
Hey E. Ann,
I went ahead and emailed you directly the authors name.
Hope you write a great paper! If you are willing come share with us all your findings or email it over.
We have a lot of great articles and statistics on the influences of media on young people. Use this link to find more. (it’s what you would get if you searched for “children media” on the search bar on the top right.
http://www.cleancutmedia.com/?s=children+media&x=0&y=0
- Clean Cut Media
hey, i am also doing a report about how media affects girls’ body image. i was wondering if you could email me the author of the article plzz cause its my summative and its really important and can u email me as soon as u get this.. thanks alot..
done.
hey i was wonder who the author was because i am writting a paper on media influence for my religion class.
I would also like to include one of your statistics from this article and was wondering if you could e-mail me the author’s name so I can cite it. Thank you, Corinne
Can you please email me the author’s name.!!
Would someone e-mail me the name of the author. Thanks
hey lou!
Sent! Please do reference the site if you chose to.. “cite” it somewhere..
you no wat this is scary i cant belive that that many girls are like that. ifeel bad for them
I am also writing an essay on self-esteem issues in the world today. I need the Author’s name as well. Can you please email me that if possible so I can cite it as well. Thanks so much
Very interesting and complex topic – and always of interest to me. You provided solid information. That, along with the comment exchanges, keeps this conversation going. A wonderful contribution. Thank you!
Self Esteem Affirmations
hey KC. thanks for your kind words.
Hello. I am also writing an essay on self-esteem issues for my Eng012. Can you please email me the author of this article. Thank you very much. And btw, nice article.
I would like for the ladies to take responsiblity for there self esteem! Don’t look to the main stream media as your standard… it’s all edited and processed. You hold on to your happiness, individuality, and spirit. Smile, be friendly and kind, and stop letting boys and other weak people control you because you want their attention. What ever you have today you either did not have it yesterday or it will be gone tomorrow so prepair your self for change and growth.
Be blessed and Stay Stong!
Emily Kaufman
Cosmetologist and Motivational Speaker
Need the authors name for citation. Thank you
Heyy I came across this when researching for my pop culture and the negativer effects it has on teen girls. very helpful. very sad.
i was curious if you could email the authors name please?
thank you for the great article .
Hi I’m creating a program plan for a class, and need to cite this in the paper, could i get the authors name/info for this to cite it! thanks!
Could I get the authors name??
I am writing a paper on self-esteem and need to cite this.
Hi I need the authors name to cite it in my schools newspaper!!! This article is great as I go to an all girls school and this pressure is always on. Please email me by tonight, authors name! Thank you
in case people are wondering, I’ve sent the info everyone has been requested directly to the email addresses provided! Enjoy! thanks so much for your interest. Hope others find it interesting and insightful.
i need the other to please i’m citing this page as well!
Can i please get the author’s name also!
I LOVE this article and i am doing a speech on low self esteem and i really need the authors name for my citation!!
Please get it to me asap! Thanks!
Hey great article, I would love to get more info as well for a school paper Im doing. The Authors name will be great! Thanks in advance
hello is it possible that i could also get the author’s name? I would like to cite this article in a research paper. Can you please email it to me as soon as possible? Thanks!
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Hi there, as many others requested, I also am citing this article in my paper and would appreciate the authors name. Thx
I believe I sent the name for all those that requested!
thanks so much for visiting. come again! and check out our other articles on similar topics.
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Does anyone know the name of the author? I would love to use this article for my English class, BUT I need the name of the author. Please help!
got you too bobbie. check ur email.
by the way, if any of you out there produces a really good report you think is worth sharing to the world, please by all means send it to us to review!
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Although this article is very good,
sorry) I feel it is lacking in the sense that it doesn’t discuss the fact that all of these things happen to males. For example, 5% of people with anorexia are male. By focussing on the girls having these issues, it’s leaving out key points which can make males with the problems feel isolated.
Hi! I’m writing an argumentative essay over the negative effects from sexual objectification of young girls and I need the authors name by tonight! If you could email it to me that’d be wonderful! Great article
I absolutely love your point! I agree so strongly that the teens of today need to realize what true beauty is. Its about being yourself, its about knowing your worth, and realizing your potential. Its about the character that you build through all your trails and tribulation. Btw, im doing a perssuasive essay for literature and i need the authors name and works cited info as well.
Thanks.
ps,
Im also having trouble finding the copyright.
Thanks again for speaking out!
I agree so much! the teens of today need to realize what beaty really is. Its being yourself, its realizing your potential and worth,its the character you build through all your trails a tribulations. Thanks for speaking out.
Btw, I need the authors name as well, and im having trouble finding the copyright.
Thanks again!
Hello! Im doing a report on why female teenagers engage in self cutting behavior and I want to use this article as a reference! Can I have the author’s name? Thanks!
Hi! I’m preparing a workshop on girls and self esteem, can you provide me with the authors name? Also, thank you for providing such vital information…keep up the good work!!
Hi, just like a couple of other people in the previous blogs, I am doing my Senior Thesis on How the Media Portrayals the Image of a Perfect Body For Women, and one of my questions are about self-esteem issues and I am using a lot of the information form this websitee but i need the authors name.
I am writing a paper on television media and how it affects adolescent girls. Can I please have the authour of this article so it will be cited correctly? thanks
Hey I am using this article for a paper. Please send me the authors name. Thank you(:
just sent it to you. thanks for visiting! be sure to check out other relevant articles. Examples:
http://www.cleancutmedia.com/advertising/sexualization-of-girls-in-media
http://www.cleancutmedia.com/tv-shows/tv-medias-influence-on-child-development
thanks for visiting Megan. I sent the info you requested. Hope it is helpful.
Hey I am not sure I got it. Could you resend it please. Thanks so much!
sent again. try checking your spam if you don’t see it.
good luck
Hi! Can I please get the authors name also, thanks!
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